I'm looking for a non-erotic 90+ minute massage and back scratch, but without oils and only light touching. No one in normal massage places (like Hand & Stone) seems to know what I mean, but it's literally that - just light sensual touch/rubbing/scratching without any oils. No happy ending or whatever - just touch. Someone suggested I try an erotic massage parlor and explain what I want, but some reviews I've read suggest they jump right to a hand job (or at least quickly go to that). Any suggestions?