This by no means applies to all the comments, but there are certainly quite a few. "She wanted $*** but I talked her down to $***." "Then I got her to ***." "I really nailed her."
Most of these girls work hard and it's not easy for them. Often they have to put up with some pretty raunchy or crude characters. They come here from China, Korea or Latin America, leaving a difficult life behind, hoping for something better and willing to work for it. They're enslaved by lack of English and a green card. Most are lucky enough to have pretty good looks and freedom from a Catholic school sense of guilt. Usually they have worked to learn a useful technique - massage that is - the sex comes naturally, at least with a little practice. They work hard to make us feel good, physically and emotionally. Sure, it's a commercial transaction, but don't you feel special to have someone cater to you, wash your back and towel you off, help you with your clothes?
THEY DO NOT GET RICH. They spend a lot of time waiting, on call so they'll be there whenever we're in the mood to walk in.
When a customer does come in, let's be realistic: They work for tips! The house gets the "house fee". Often the girls even have to pay a portion of their tips to the house. And then there's the guy who comes in, pays the house fee and leaves nothing. That's why the regular gets such good treatment; the girl knows she isn't going to get stiffed. You wouldn't go to Denny's for breakfast, pay the check and not leave the waitress a tip.
So often we guys are asking, "how do I give her the hint that I want something more?" The answer is simple. Engage in conversation. Tell her you know she works for tips and you wouldn't dream of stiffing her. This sends a clear message that you intend to treat her kindly. She'll usually respond with some tactile hints followed with a whispered, "tell me what you like." When you do tell her she may respond by asking what you'll pay or by telling you what her price is. If you're reasonable she'll probably say yes and that's it. If she's reasonable and you can afford it, just say yes. Don't make it a contest to see how little you can get away with paying her and thereby take all the fun out of the fun part. If she names a price you think is too high, don't put her down. Try, "gee, I'm sure you're worth it but I just don't have that much. I can only afford ***." If you sound sincere, polite and respectful it just might work and you can both have a pleasant experience.
But if all else fails, just accept the massage and respect that "No means No." Treat her with dignity, get your massage and don't go away mad, just don't come back.
