I thought that I'd chime in here as this topic seems very appropriate for my current situation. I just recently ended a pretty serious relationship with a former
AMP worker who eventually became the owner of the
AMP after vowing to herself that she didn't want to service customers any longer and preferred to have a more stable relationship (with myself). I had no desires in the beginning to get too serious, but as time passed and I saw how dedicated she was in trying to juggle her role as an
AMP owner and a monogamous partner/girlfriend, I became drawn into a very serious relationship. I helped her financially in order for her to take over the
AMP to the tune of 20K and from that point on she became self sufficient and our relationship was great whereby she and I had incredible sex and I became privy to a lot of inside information that many never hear about life within the
AMP business. Some of the stories that she shared with me about many of the girls that worked the
AMP surprised me as a good many of them have serious boyfriends, yet have many regular customers. I asked her, "how could these girls fuck all of these customers, yet have boyfriends?" She told me that many of the boyfriends are okay with them working as it brings in good money for the couples relationship and some of the boyfriends don't have to work, or it supplements their drug/gambling habits. I asked her how she felf about that and it didn't seem to faze her too much because for her as long as the girls worked to bring in customers, she could care less about their personal lives. After a while, many of the girls got into finacial trouble and hit up my girlfriend for money. I kept telling her not to loan out money, but these Koreans seem to be in some heave debt. Some girls sort of blackmailed her by telling her that if she doesn't loan out the money, then the girls would work elsewhere. She never asked me for any more financial help, yet despite my strong objections, tried to be the nice owner and extend loans out to the girls. Finally, one of the girls stole around 10K of the house money and took off. This owner trusted her too much and let her hold onto the house fee assuming that it would be collected at the end of the month. With the house suddenly short of a lot of money, she asked me for some financial help to which I quickly declined. I, however, did tell her that I would help in whatever way possible to help her recupe her losses by helping to advertise and solicite other Korean girls to come and work here in Hawaii from New York, LA and Dallas. Instead of being aggressive this way, she became depressed and told me that she would have to go back to servicing customers in order to recupe the losses. I couldn't understand how she could suddenly revert back to this lifestyle just like that after a relationship that she told me had been like a dream come true with me. When I realized how her thinking was pretty screwed up, I decided to bail and give up the delusion that these
AMP girls could actually settle down and have a normal relationship. In one regard I am sad for her and see the direction that she is headed, but on the other hand it cut my losses and allowed me to wake up to reality and realize that having an as needed encounter with a variety of girls is less stressful emotionally.