I wouldn't get too attached, but I would never treat one badly either. It is a buisness for her but in any buisness there is mutual respect. The woman knows what you want and when she provides it the best she can, you owe it to her not just in payment but in decent treatment. There are sorry providers that rush you and just want it over with and ones that do their best and at least act like they are enjoying it. There are also sorry clients; don't be one of those. That being said I have never given gifts, nor will I as these women that we all should respect are here today, gone tomorrow. Don't be afraid to chat with them or let them know your appreciate their care. I've been doing this (albeit infrequently) for about 14 years and I'm glad I did, but I make no illusions about their true feelings.

Don't get hurt thinking they love you. They don't, they just fuck you for a living. Keep that in mind and also that they don't hate you (mostly) or even dislike you. Maintain a friendly distance.

1saleaday.com always has some inexpensive jewelery on sale... In my experience an inexpensive gift can go a long way. They can buy pretty much anything they want with the money most of them make but caring enough to bring them something is remembered. I have a few providers in Warren who always are wearing a necklace I gave them when I go. I am sure they put it on when I walk in the door but it also means they remember me and my gift...

I bring gifts of all sorts. I think it makes a big difference in the level of service you recieve. That being said, you have to get to know the girl a little to know what would be a good gift for her. Most girls seem to get excited when you give them something practical.

I feel sorry for the bastards here who see this as nothing but business with soul-less automatons. Yeah, I've run into some girls like that, but for the most part, providers have been very nice.

In strip club parlance, there is what is known as stripper sh*t (SS) - the stuff that strippers say or do to make you feel good and to separate you from your money. My take -- and that of many others -- is that if it's well-done SS (i.e. NOT "wow, you have a big d*ck"), then who cares? And it's the same with AMP's, except that my experience has been that most of the SS at AMP's is well-done. And at least some of that is born from the fact that she's actually nice and likes you.

If it enhances the experience for you and you aren't dumb enough to actually fall in love, then go for it. And if gifts are how you want to express that, cool.

DONALD, ITS EASY TO SEE YOU ONLY WANT SEX AND DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. YOUR SO SELFISH AND I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY NOT ONE WOMAN WOULD EVER BE CLOSE TO YOU. WOMEN FROM CHINA ARE DIFFERENT, ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR BF OR HUSBAND TO BE IN THEIR LIFE. NOT MANY WOMEN WHO DO THIS WORK WILL BE DOING IT VERY LONG. MOST OF EM DO THIS TO SUPPORT THEIR FAMILYS AND OFTEN SUPPORT 10 PEOPLE OR MORE. I HAVE KNOW OVER A THOUSAND PERSONALLY AND NEVER MET ONE THAT WANTS TO DO THIS WORK.THEY GIVE OF THEMSELVES 100% AND THATS A RARE THING INDEED OF A WOMAN TO LOVE SO MUCH TO DO THIS.