"NO BLACK MEN" or "NO BLACK MEN UNDER 40!" What's the deal with that on backpage, out of curiousity. Anyone know why? I can think of multiple reason but it boggles the mind.

A lady does not have to be racist or prejudice to not want to see black men as clients.
Understand these ladies have the freedom to pick and choose who they provide services to.

I perfer Asian girls, that does not make me a racist even though I do not date any other race or color. It is personal choice, I am not generally attracted to black or white ladies for that matter.

Further when it comes to 'working' girls, thier own person experiences will form their opinions on which clients they feel safe with. Who are you to judge or through out a racist lable on someone who may have had a bad experience or several with some men and has decided for her own safety not to risk any further contact?


There are good people and bad people of every race color and creed. Lets not forget that, but you have to know it is a seller's market, and they do not have to do anything with anyone they do not want to.

"NO BLACK MEN" or "NO BLACK MEN UNDER 40!" What's the deal with that on backpage, out of curiousity. Anyone know why? I can think of multiple reason but it boggles the mind.

I wouldn't let it bother me because there are plenty of "providers" that could care less about color. IMHO these aren't the women I would use for any purpose other than the purposes they are paid for. If I were using these women for dating or having around my friends then their preference would actually mean something to me, instead I'm more interested in what color underwear I'm wearing tomorrow!

They will be blue.

Despite what some may think, it has nothing to do with being prejudice. Has to do with the fact that most violent crimes are committed by blacks. Take it as you wish but it's the truth. I have even seen black girls post they don't see black men as well.

I will share a few observations: It is my observation, nearly 100 percent of the time, Afro-Americans OVERtip. It seems that they want to avoid the perception that Edgewood describes in his comments above. I interact with the hospitality industry on a regular basis and Blacks seem to over tip.

Regarding the AMP providers, as well as escorts and other selected professionals, they have a unique advantage regarding discrimination. An AMP likely can be considered a "public accomodation" which is subject to civil rights laws; but, who is going to sue a whore house? I am not saying AMPs are whore houses; I am contending that none of you will file a law suit against such place if they meet you at the door and say "we don't want to serve you because you are Black or fat or crippled or bald or gay or female or Oriental or Hispanic, et al et al.

It is totally prejudice !!! I've seen girls who say no black men in their add and some of them were robbed by the young thug type and that's what they are trying to avoid. None the less it is what it is. I would still call them and ask why. As a black man it is sort of discouraging to see these adds and the irony is that it is usually the type of white girls that attract black men who inched the no blacks disclaimer

If someone doesn't like you or want to have sex with you, dude it is not always about race. Providers do not have to be racist to not be attracted to a black man. I am not attracted to black women, but I am not a racist, I just do not want to have sex with someone I am not attracted to.
Yes there are beautiful black women in this world, but even still they are not my sexual peference. I am not racist and any provider who chooses not to have sex with a black man, white man or Asian, Indian, Spanish or other does not make them racist.

Just because you 'scream' racism does not make it so. The fact that you didn't just skip past the ad and move onto another ad or provider and wanted to call her out on it, indicates you may have some lingering issues to deal with.

hey you got me wrong ! The problem is tha you are under the assumption that racist and prejudice are synonymous. The word prejudice from the root prejudge means to judge prematurely. The word racist implies a hatred towards an entire race and superiority over that race. Have you ever seen an ad that said no whites or Hispanics ? I'm not saying that the providers shouldn't have personal preferences everyone does and according to you everyone would be racist. All that I'm saying is that they are PREJUDGING . I am not calling them racist. At the end of the day this is America! "to each his own" or their own...