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by mrbadcompany

mrbadcompany

03/20/2014 07:42 pm

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I have been going to massage places for a few years now. I always joke with them how beautiful they are and when are we going to meet for dinner. Well right after New Years. I had a girl who barely spoke english say you take me to Thunder Valley? I said yes and dinner too. We agreed to meet at McDonalds that Sunday.

When I met her and we got in my car she said I have a confession to make. I speak English and in fact she has lived in the United states since she was a little girl. She graduated from a school in Arizona and moved here.

She told me that she just needed a friend and did not want to have sex with me so if that is what I wanted we were not going to work out. I get handjobs from her at massage parlor

I agreed to her terms and said well I am not going to support your gambling since you most likely make more money than me, she laughed and said yeah the money is good.

Over the past few months she has shared how touch the lifestyle is on the girls that some places treat there girls like crap but where she works they are treated very well, She told me she made 80,000 last year working 6 days a week, and had three weeks of vacation. But she also does online studies for her masters in between clients over the internet so she is very happy.

She seems very well adjusted but has some parental issues for sure, We spend her day off together every week and text and chat during the day and evening. She tells me stories that make me laugh and I do not support her at all in fact we alternate picking up the check at places. Our relationship has also grown into a sexual relationship and she promises that she never gives more than a handjob to anyone. she is funny and smart and has major guilt about what she does for a living.
I wanted to post this because i always just took the girls for granted and never thought of them as people, mybad, She is amazing and no I am not going to tell anyone who she is or where she works

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rakshasa

03/20/2014 09:46 pm

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Thanks for the insight. I'm sincerely happy for you. Seems like you're being smart about it too. I've often hoped to get to know an RA well enough to sit down with her and get her to "lift the curtain" so I can understand the working side of the massage parlor biz. I've never been able to pull it off for various reasons. I always try to think of the girls as people though. Brave of you to make that admission.

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rich7

03/21/2014 06:09 am

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Very interesting!!!
Barely spoke English then did..
We know that happens, but to have had service with her, and find that out about her must have been a trip...
Yeah lots of the ladies keep a barrier up, to keep distance and privacy.
I think of the ladies as people also.
Thank you for sharing your story mrbadcompany.

Many of the ladies are very smart!!

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relaxn

03/21/2014 06:34 am

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I've often wondered if alot of these girls could speak English better than they let on. I figure it could be a way of keeping some guys at arms length, esp. if they didn't want to do everything with a man, for whatever reason.

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boss777

03/21/2014 08:05 am

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Hey Mrbad glad to hear you found someone and sounds like you are thinking with the right head!!
Wish you all the best.....

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4033y1st

03/22/2014 12:11 am

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Looks like you're in good company MBC.

Enjoy it.
Needless to say, stay safe all the time.

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mrbadcompany

04/22/2014 07:49 pm

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Hey guys my relationship is still going on. I need to tell you this is such a different relationship than anything I have been in before. She totally understands my needs and my wants and my fantasy's. When we see a good looking woman she asks if she is my type and what I would want to do to her. When a girl is young like 18 or so she asks would you do her? and my answers are honest and horny. she takes it like a trooper and is almost always upbeat.

One thing I have learned about massage parlors is the owners know what is going on and set the guidelines. So sometimes when you go to a place you don't get anything it is because the girl does not want to risk having to go somewhere else, but the owner can change there mind on a dime and a place that does not provide happy endings can start if business is down.

One good story for you guys, My friend told me a recent story about a young professional woman(early 30"s) who came in and wanted a massage. Usually she said she is real careful with women and provides a very professional massage but this woman was nude and undraped face down and when she got to massaging her ass the woman was humping the table and my friend said she was very wet, so she threw caution to the wind and started to tease her vagina area and the woman went nuts and offered her 100 dollars to finger her clit. She did it and now this woman is a regular. For some reason this is the story i love her telling me when we are alone and getting in the mood. I have asked her if she wanted to bring the woman home and she said no now that I no longer go into the massage parlor all the time this woman is her favorite client and she does not want to lose another.

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rich7

04/24/2014 04:30 am

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Mrbad; sounds good thanks for the update. Yeah stories like that would set a good mood!! Please keep us informed!!
Best Wishes
Thank You

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relaxn

04/24/2014 12:05 pm

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"mrbadco..." It's nice of you to update your relationship quest with a provider. The story about her working on the female customer could be a really good turn-on, too.
Some guys might get turned on by having their provider GFs tell them about the men that they take care of every day...different body types, size of their genitals, etc.
But eventually jealousy could raise its' ugly head and kill your relationship...when you think about how many men she takes care of daily, weekly, monthly, etc. It could make you wonder how you "measure up" in comparison to her customers. The male ego can be a very fragile thing.
I've had a couple of GFs that thought there should be no secrets and they would tell everything they did, with every guy...and want me to tell my stories, too. It is easier when you are from the same town, everybody seems to know everyones' business.
The way I see it is whatever was done before we started seeing each other is nobody's business.

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OldtimerB

04/25/2014 07:18 pm

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mrbadcompany wrote:

Hey guys my relationship is still going on. I need to tell you this is such a different relationship than anything I have been in before. She totally understands my needs and my wants and my fantasy's. When we see a good looking woman she asks if she is my type and what I would want to do to her. When a girl is young like 18 or so she asks would you do her? and my answers are honest and horny. she takes it like a trooper and is almost always upbeat.

One thing I have learned about massage parlors is the owners know what is going on and set the guidelines. So sometimes when you go to a place you don't get anything it is because the girl does not want to risk having to go somewhere else, but the owner can change there mind on a dime and a place that does not provide happy endings can start if business is down.

One good story for you guys, My friend told me a recent story about a young professional woman(early 30"s) who came in and wanted a massage. Usually she said she is real careful with women and provides a very professional massage but this woman was nude and undraped face down and when she got to massaging her ass the woman was humping the table and my friend said she was very wet, so she threw caution to the wind and started to tease her vagina area and the woman went nuts and offered her 100 dollars to finger her clit. She did it and now this woman is a regular. For some reason this is the story i love her telling me when we are alone and getting in the mood. I have asked her if she wanted to bring the woman home and she said no now that I no longer go into the massage parlor all the time this woman is her favorite client and she does not want to lose another.

@MBC,
Why not go see your gf as a therapist once in a while so she's not losing that income? That way you could bring up asking the female customer to join you two...at least once to try it.

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mrbadcompany

04/25/2014 07:55 pm

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Good idea oldtimer,

Relaxn. she has shared with me that although size is not important to her( i guess I would be proof to that)She has told me about the extremes on both sides from the guy who she said had to be almost a footlong to the guy who was so small his was only the size of the head. Interesting enough she is much more into talking about the size of a guys tip. She appreciates the really big tips, (some guys give her 100 for a hj) to the guys who basically stiff her (10 dollars). Once a guy leaves a small tip all the girls know and your mileage will not be the same afterwards. One thing I found interesting is she has a regular that does not want her to touch him at all just rub the top of his head for 25 minutes and then watch him wank for 5 while she stands there and is supposed to shake her head no. He tips her 80 dollars every week for a 30 min massage at lunch time

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apache2

04/27/2014 11:38 am

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If there's one thing I have learned about being in a relationship with a lady whose job is to satisfy/please other guys, it's to have a "heavy heart"......otherwise either "it'll get stepped on and squashed" or be a "foolish heart" and do something stupid....

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chidave

05/31/2014 06:00 am

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I dated a beautiful Chinese provider for 2 1/2 years. She called me her "temporary husband." As with your case she was new to the area and had no friends. She initiated by asking me out for lunch. My time with her ended on good terms and was terrific. So if one is looking for such a relationship perhaps the clue is to get someone new to the area without local friends and one who plans to stay for awhile.

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mrbadcompany

11/07/2014 07:07 pm

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Well it was fun while it lasted. I had 6 months plus of some really good times and I was never taken advantage of. My girl who I never really fell in love with but I sure did enjoy our time together told me she was going back to Arizona and her family. Time to start going to massage parlors again,

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Time2

11/07/2014 07:27 pm

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Hahaha! Well, good for you for having some fun with the lady outside of the traditional client role, Bro. I kinda unexpectedly re-started a friends-with-benefits situation with a longtime AMP lady friend myself the other day and, damn, that can be hot!

Good to see you're posting here and our AMP scene is thriving even if this site's gone quiet - thanks also for reconnecting by inbox.

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boss777

11/07/2014 10:17 pm

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Glad to hear you had a good time while it lasted. Have fun checking out those AMP's again.

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relaxn

11/07/2014 11:11 pm

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I went AMPing on 11/5, visiting a nice girl that could soon be my new ATF. During the length of our "visit" I asked her if she ever saw any of her customers outside of work...like on a date, or even an overnight visit. She said that she might...then said "You'll be my BF tonight"...which I took to be more in jest rather than a statement, or a question.
I asked what her overnight tip might be and she said "Tip? I'd fuck my BF for free." She wanted to know why I'd want her for an overnight visit, as she'd only have about 8 hours before she'd have to return...sometimes even as little as 5 hours for sleep before she'd have to get up to exercise, shower, and getting her make-up on and return to the AMP? I told her that sometimes it is nice just to have somebody sleeping beside you, it doesn't always need to include sex (well, maybe a BJ would be nice).
Next time I visit I might see if she'd go thru with it.

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chaodidi

11/08/2014 12:27 am

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I've had a couple ATFs who gave it up for free but it is rare. I'm seeing a lady now who says she won't charge if she loves her paramour. I gave her money last time and she said she would take it because I was helping her out and rather than paying for sex. A sucker is born every minute....somebody needs to lick me.

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itsathrill

11/08/2014 10:34 am

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Bobalu, we pay no matter whether girl friend, wife, AMP, ATF, ATF who doesn't charge(?). The beauty of the AMP's is we pay, then don't pay until the next time.

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Brahmabull

11/08/2014 10:39 am

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Mr bad and oldtimer. If you date a spa girl. You keep work and your relationship out of the spa. Especially your sexlife. They never mix or it always fails. Trying to get her to interact with another client and you is a very bad idea for all parties. Not only for your relationship. But there is no indication or way you could think that woman wants anyone to know she paid another woman for sex much less to be approached to bring a strange guy (who she probably has no interest in anyway). Trust my experience from past and current relationships with spa ladies who I have had long (multi year ) relationships with. Do not mix her job and your out of the spa relationship. Ever. And if you ever have another relationship withone you need to learn some rules.
1 you don't need to hear about other customers.
2 you don't want to hear about other customers.
3. Whatever happened before you dated doesn't matter so don't ask about it.
4 you had better trust her or don't bother to start a relationship
5 regardless of before from this point forward there is no more kissing clients or uncovered services (my personal rule you may this one skip if you don't care)

If she can't agree to number 5 your relationship isn't that serious and you need to stay safe at all times while dating.

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