Annie had a strong impact on a lot of us, apparently. I must admit, she was a sweetie.
That said, this biz is not built for lasting relations with these ladies. SLC, your lament is one most of us have had as well at one time or another. But the advice given above is good:
Move on.
Keep in mind tho' that if you're more active on the site and in the hobby, its more likely guys will trust you with any info they have. The fact is, the more often you get out there, the more likely it is you'll come across some info on her yourself.