i wondered the same..im not a chatter....but maybe they think you are PE if u dont chat them up....atleast if its your first time there....

Some small talk at first to let her know your a human.Then shut up to let her do her job in hopes things move along on yhe flip.If you chat them up to much you generally find your self out of time and out the door with a chatted up massage.

Basically she will let you know if chatting is cool. Starting with small talk without making her nervous is good but if she doesn't want to talk, she will let you know. Also speak slow and clear because most of these girls don't understand much English.

I tend to be very chatting with lots of questions; what city is she from, how long has she been in the country - Had some really great conversations; im just nosey; I just like to know about the underside of life...

I'm sure if you are getting good vibe you can do as well, but be warned if they smell LE, you are screwed (and not the way you intended either)!

Once I get to know a provider very (and the same goes to the provider getting too know me as well) after a couple of visits, I too love to chat with them. It's a good way for the both of us too get to know each other very well to build some trust between the two us.